| Wow! It seems such a long time ago now.
Luke said to me one evening "If you don't mind mam, I'm going
to sleep in class from now on because I don't learn anything anyway,
they just swing off the walls."
He was talking about the other kids he was in class with. The Ed
Psych's report had just come and she had told the school he needed
to be put into the top set for every subject but English as his
dyslexia puts him at a major disadvantage with reading.
At the same time he had taken his poem, Inherent Grace, into school
to show his English Teacher and all she said was "did you do
this?" We were rightly upset once again by the ignorance of
every damned teacher including the SENCO in this school.
The school moved Luke into the middle group for most subjects but
refused to give him any support so he couldn't manage the work because
he couldn't read the handouts.
At the end of my tether with them I called a meeting with the SENCO
who took more than 2 weeks to ring me back and then another 2 weeks
to organise it! She then attempted to cancel the meeting the day
before as her moral support wasn't available. I told her, in no
uncertain terms, that it was impossible to cancel as Luke's father
had taken time off work to attend.
In the meeting she went out of her way to put Luke down and refused
to give him any help at all. I removed Luke from school the following
day but didn't de-reg him as we had asked for a meeting, not only
with the school but with the LEA as well.
It took them 8 weeks to organise!! Everyone turned up from their
Head Ed Psych, Luke's Ed Psych, Gifted and Talented LEA and school
rep, SENCO and the Head Master and us.
The Head Master asked if Luke's case was unusual! Luke's Ed Psych
and our Parent Partnership lady who teaches dyslexia awareness courses
nearly fell off their chairs. We were offered a dinnerlady to help
Luke in class. Don't get me wrong I have nothing against dinnerladies
but this would be totally unsuitable.
After talking it over with our Parent Partnership lady and researching
it on the web we de-regged him the following day.
After the terrible neglect and downright blatant attempts by the
school to ruin Luke's confidence it is the best thing I ever did
and would do it again in the blink of an eye.
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